True Friends!!

My True Friend One day, I asked myself,"Is there still a friend that will show me her true self,"Is there still a friend that sticks closer than a brother,"But as I kept demanding for answers,My questions remained unanswered,And I lingered over these for days

But at a point, I saw hands appearing,Remoulding my lost image which was disappearing,Lifting me up when I was falling,Providing support when I was fainting,After a while, I started walking right,When I didn't even dream of standing right,Then I began to wonder where all these came from.

Then I asked God,"Please, what is the meaning of all these actions,"In a while, he gave me a detailed explanation,And I gave him thanks,Because when I asked for a true friend,He gave me true friends,And I also give appreciation to you my friends,Because you were there to mend,The holes of the past.

I have given you my appreciation,Now I want to make some recommendations,My friends, please hold my hands,So that we can walk through the land,Of betrayal and injustice,As we hold hands, we would see beyond injustice,And forever be the best of friends,But I want you to know, watever you doYou will still be my true friends forever... Dear friends, I want to show my appreciation to you for being there for me. In one way or the other, you've all helped me and I cannot express how much you all mean to me. To show my appreciation, I composed this little poem and tagged you in it. Please, I hope u cherish it and also take heed to my advice as I will always love you all.God bless you all.Love 

L-O-V-E

When you love, you don’t condemn another for not living their life like you do. When you love, you never give up on another but keep trying and praying until you see a change. You don’t feel like you’re better than the next but grateful to be where you are. When you love, you help those who are in need and not complain. I ride the train to school everyday and there are always people begging for money or food. I don’t give them money or food because I’m trying to act righteous but I look at them and thank God that I’m not in that situation and since I’m in a better place, all I can do is help. Love feeds the hungry and clothes the naked. Love is never hesitant to help no matter how many times you’ve been hurt. Love may sound stupid but love is the smartest. Love does not remember the wrongs done but keeps account of the good. Love does not dig up the past to condemn the present. Love always gives another chance. Love is so patient, always believing there will be change. In pain and discomfort, love keeps on going. When you love, you look at others with the eyes of Christ and see the best in them. You don’t go round looking for faults and flaws. Love is able to change the most wicked criminal and melt the hardest heart.


Love never fails. Where words and powerful preaching, speaking in tongues can’t touch a life, love will penetrate so deep. When you have love, you don’t need to speak too much, because it speaks for itself. Love will make you do the extraordinary without you even knowing it and in the process, lives are changed. You don’t even have to go round screaming “Jesus is coming soon” before people repent and want to serve your God, but your actions in love will prick their hearts and move them to know the God you’re serving. I’ll say it again, where words, eloquence, preaching can’t get to, love can and will always get there. I’ve said this before and I’m going to say it again, you can’t scare or force people to Christ but you can love them to Christ.
~iMMACULATE~

MEN! BOYS! MEN! BOYS!

Hello sweet people its been a while i wrote a note on here.You know having one of those days where your head is so over bloated you dont even know that else to write. For those who might be reading one of my notes for the first time let me first by saying thank you so much for taking your time to read my notes; i dont write for fun Either do i write cause am bored or i write cause i dont have a life? trust me Ive had people come to me and say that. But there is something special about people who write they are very very special people.My own reason for writing is it makes me feel good about myself just pouring out your heart out there through writing its the best feeling i can ever get in this world.Anyway to Cut my long story short_-_-_ My topic for to nigth is Difference between dating A REAL MAN and DATING A BOY!

10 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT REAL MEN!!!!!

1)A REAL MAN MAKES DECISIONS AND LIVES WITH THE CONSEQUENCES:

 There are many ways to define a man, and different people have different definitions, so I'm going to skip all that crap and tell you the only thing you need to know.I did my research on these and i find it very interesting i must say, cause its something my dad always told me a solid man would make decisions wisely and even if it were a wring move he made he would live with the consequences,but a floating non-stable man or rather call them Boys  are also in control of the decisions  they make but not the consequences. so ladies ask yourself would you rather date or marry who is SLID or is floating! u might ask yourself WAt THE HELL?h? is her point well immaculate here is trying to say! pick a SOLID MAN who can handle a solid relationship than  FLOATING man who would leave u hanging n u migth as well become MR&MRS FLOATER! with no solid foundation.but it has to start fromt he man.

LADIES STOP DATING BOYS AND DATE A REAL MAN

2) A REAL MAN IS STRONG:

I mean common ladies we want a man who can protect us and make us feel safe around them,even when we are weak they are our strong bone, someone who can yell at us the truth and we love when our men are not cowards either i mean Ive dated weak boys i mean extremely weak boys i cant stand it either.But let me clarify tht tho some real men cry and i dont see anything wrong in that actually everyone has thier weak point;but a real men rarely cries only if he was really hurt.A REAL MAN doesn't moan, doesn't complain, doesn't get sick, and doesn't need to go to the doctor every time he sneezes. A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences. A real man accepts responsibility for his actions and his words. A real man is firm. If life is a b*tch, a real man will slap it and move on.thats rigth immaculate said that. LADIES STOP DATING BOYS AND DATE A REAL MAN!

3)  A REAL MAN IS FOCUSED:

A real man focuses on power, money and family. He doesn't focus on sex. Sex comes as a result of having power, money and a wife (and if she doesn't satisfy you, there are plenty of other women who will, especially when you are powerful and rich).I mean honestly Ive dated so many guys who just aren't 

 focused at all, some are so immature all they care about is stupid things. and of course very little UN reasonable and profitable things that would bring them something positive in their life.I love a man who is also focused in school knows what is goals are and is ready to help people out there, ambitious,determined n also who thinks positively.Men always say they can't find a good woman, but when they do they don't know what to do with her! Thats because they are not focused! they dont have a plan for their life.LADIES STOP DATING BOYS AND DATE A REAL MAN!

4) A REAL MAN DOESNT GOSSIP:

of course ladies you know what i mean by that? ha ha ha i actually love this one in particular i must say cause there are so many many immature biys out there who just cant keep that mouth shut, and who said gossips were meant for women alone? loool  please take that out of your head today men do gossip more than we ladies.They talk about every little detail they must have done with a girl which i must say is very embarrassing for we girls cause we so much have trusted the guy to do certain things with even our best friends i mean listen to this OUR SO CALLED BEST FRIENDS WE DONT TELL THEM EVERY LITTLE DETAIL ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIPS OR PERSONAL LIVES! A real man follows omerta; he keeps his mouth shut. He shelters information and rations his words. A real man does not reveal more than he has to and doesn't engage in girlie talk about others. A real man doesn't discuss things he doesn't know about or people he has never met.LADIES STOP DATING BOYS AND DATE REAL MEN

5) A REAL MAN DOESNT LOOK LIKE A WOMAN:

LADIES LADIES LADIES, my second best point of course u might be wondering what does she mean.but before i go further i must say am only writing this in my point of views and experiences ive been through.I might be young but Ive learnt so many both in a hard way,painful way, shameful what ever you wanna call it but life must go on.Not all i might have written here might relate with most ladies out there but i must say this is what ive experienced  so please every one is entitled to their own opinion.>>>>>> BACK TO MY Point.  A real man doesn't have piercings and long hair, and he doesn't shave his chest. Manicures, however, are acceptable. Massages from female attendants are also tolerated. A real man knows that, outside of his barber, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman. yes immaculate said that. LADIES PLEASE DATE REAL MEN NOT A BOY!

6)  A REAL MAN CAN DEFEND HIMSELF:

i love it when men are very understanding and patience when it comes to arguing with women,they know how to defend them selves in a very high class manner, in fact i trip for men like that i really do honestly.A man who can stand up and own up to his own mistakes and never feels to proud to say AM SORRY. i respect men who defend themselves positively it just makes me go BOMB CHIKA WOW WOW! yea u know that commercial? loool yeap i totally forgot what the name of the cologne is but anyway LADIES THESE ARE MY OWN TIPS basically.it might work for you it might not work but am glad to help a lil. :)It's better to fall in love with the right guy at the wrong moment. Than with the wrong guy at the right moment.

7)  A REAL MAN IS NOT AFRAID TO TELL YOU HE LOVES YOU:

i hate when men says that word i love you without backing it up with actions, i mean you got to really prove that you mean it, so many boys these days say that word in order to get in between your thighs trust me they are very good actors in fact PHD in acting they play it so well, you think your in love they say I LOVE YOU every minute and we ladies cause we carry such a tender,flexible and fragile heart we tend to fall for their deceit and every word they do tell us which i must agree its true.This word love can be very deceitful but it takes a woman with wisdom who knows the meaning of love and knows when she sees and feels love to understand what i am talking about.Know the differenced between true love and real real love. ladies its very important

8)  A REAL MAN DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOUR WEIGTH:

and yes i have to talk about this topic cause so many relationships out there are been destroyed because of men who are so selfish n also heartless they feel skinny girls would stay skinny for ever.I must say attraction physically is a goog thing but not the best, honestly if you are emotionally and mentally attracted to sum1 through their heart the weight thing? you always have to over look that i respect guys who care much more about my health and not my weight. i mean i absolutely don't' see anything wrong with a woman who loves herself,her body and also is healthy i really have to say  are the women with high self esteem especially we black women ha ha ha my goodness i have some crazy black friends they dont think been fat is all that good but they discovered that is the way they are they love their body and also they have men in their lives who love them the way they are,LADIES IF YOUR MAN IS DISTANCE AWAY FROM YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR WEIGHT PLEASE PLEASE LISTEN HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU FOR YOU.he is only attracted to you and your sexuality dont be too dump to fall for it.my previous was based on my ex who was overly obsessed with models n wanted a skinny girl with the shape and all that,unfortunately the girl he dated after gained some weight and he dumped her for another girl,i mean when will guys realize that women will always change no matter how perfect they migth look now they will always and always chnage body shape we get wrinkled up easily you know what i mean.

9) A REAL MAN RESPECTS YOU

they respect your worth,value,and also your decision for example if you tell them you dont want to have sex with them, Real men who love you and know the meaning of true love would respect your decision and wont force you out of your own will by making you feel less of a woman because you didn't have sex with them, Trust me Ive been there done that am not only talking because people say it you have to be able to experience some things in life in order to grow more in wisdom life it self we get tested and we learn from it.They respect you when you say you want to do this and do that, they support  you every step of the way.They are not controlling and bossy i hate men who feel they got control over you especially when they think cause they are the shit which isn't or because they got the money or car or a job! A real man would take you for who you are respect your personality and and knows your worth as a woman and not control,yell at you or tells you what tot do boys do things alot.Trust me alot of my exes were boys boys boys boys.who just think they are smarter than anybody in this world but we ladies we show them how it is done.

10)A REAL MAN IS THE ESSENCE OF MANHOOD BECAUSE,BY DEFINITION HE HAS ACHIEVED THE PINNACLE OF HIS Role 

And last but not the least i must say hmm mmm mmm...this so far was one great night writing all these and putting them n all together.once again it might not the best note or perfect note either but am sure many ladies out there can relate to this article right hereand also understand where am coming from thank you so much for taking your time to read this i really do appreciate it from the bottom of my heart! your comments,advice critisim i will accept cause we all learn everyday to become a better person.My goal is to become a better writer it has been my joy and it also comforts me also.Thank you one again.TO TOP IT ALL 'A REAL MAN LOVES GOD AND PUT HIM FIRST IN EVERYTHING HE DOES" N HE ALSO HAS A HEART THAT KNOWS GOD" GOD Bless you all 

~IMMACULATE~

P.S this note was written by me if needed to make use of it please kindly let me know.Theres nothing wrong in being polite thanks <3

"IM JUST LIKE YOU"

Am a woman who loves to write and write and write....it makes me feel good even if am goin through stress.i found out writing was the best way to express my self feelings to ease out.This poem i wrote last nigth this my hobby i dont thinki can neva eva get tired of it.This inspires me 2 alwys have something on my stattus .sum ppl migth find it annoying and wy is she puttin her buisnes ouththere well here is a poem 2 actually express my mind..Am just like you we've all been through this its nothing new!

                   People just look at me.  Look enough to stare not noticing the inside of me, They just look at the clothes I wear, They don't know how I feel, They think I'm always glad But there's something they don't no I'm the one who's feeling sad. They think I always win but really I always loose,they think my life is so great but they couldn't stay one day in my shoes. You may think I'm strong You may think I'm tough but you have no idea. My life is so rough every time I'm in my roomy YOU'll see water go down my eyes. You ask me what's wrong I'll put on a fake smile. People say that I am to good to get hurt but I'm just like everyone else. I wish that could work everybody says I look to good and I'm just a tease but I cry my eyes out then put on a cheese. When love came into my life surprisingly that was something I feared.

                                    I never thought I'd be feeling like this in all my years, yes I've been in love yes I got hurt you would have  thought all she do is fight & flirt but you are wrong about everything.I was wrong at it to now I see love's agony and what it can do that's why I'm here to throw away this stress & strife to start all over maybe a new life but people over here is the same as over there they just look at your appearanceand the style of your hair never to look in the inside of me never to care. I was brought into this world realizing life's not fair so if you really think.......I look too good I dress too niceI never get hurt ?? I'll never stay by a guy side and the word love I can't describe??? your wrong about that too because I'm just like everyone else around me.(I'M JUST LIKE YOU!!!!!!).....

Precious Time!!

Time is so precious. It is one thing that can never be recovered. It waits for no one. It’s either you grab it or you lose it. Time operates on no one’s schedule and is not a respecter of anyone. Every second lost would eventually become days, months and years lost. That’s why the Psalmist asked the Lord to teach him to use his days and time wisely.

So many people waste their time doing absolutely nothing. I mean, at the end of the day, they can’t really say they have done anything significant. They can’t really say they have achieved something that will move their lives or other peoples lives forward. They go through each and every day like they can easily turn back the hands of time and start all over again. It’s really sad because, it’s not like God doesn’t want to move in our lives but sometimes we’re the ones hindering Him by doing unprofitable things which distract us from our real purpose. It’s not like God said you must spend every waking moment in His presence because He knows that’s not possible as we all have stuff to do. Some have to go to work, while others have to go to school, take care of children, and other important stuff. But He wants us to spend every second we have walking in line with His plan for our lives.

I’m not saying it’s wrong to sit back, relax and have fun but don’t overdo it. Some spend endless hours jumping from one party to another and achieve nothing out of it. It’s awesome to celebrate with people but when it becomes your full time job, then there’s an issue. Some live on their phones permanently and say all the things they should and should not say. I used to do that and I prayed it out of my system and now I’m able to ignore calls if my spirit does not approve of it. Not being rude or arrogant but if the call is not going to add anything to my life, I would rather just let it be. When I notice that after speaking to someone a few times on the phone and they really have nothing of value to add to my life, I quietly excuse myself. Also I noticed recently, some people have become facebook shareholders and have pitched their tents and built mansions on it. At all hours, they are there. They update their status every second and I wonder if they have anything of value to do with their time. They mind other peoples business like they are paid to do so.

There are so many things we do that we think are useful but, are actually really useless and time wasters. Sometimes, it’s not like you want to sit and do nothing but you just don’t know where to start or what else to do. I used to spend endless hours on the internet doing absolutely nothing and when I realized it was becoming an obsession, I made it a point to turn my computer off when I’m done. By doing that, I end up finding something more profitable to do. I know it’s tempting to just sit in front of the television the whole day but to be honest, at the end of the day, there’s this emptiness inside of you because you can’t really point at anything useful you’ve done that day. With all of the extra time on your hands, you can study the word, pray, listen to sermons, read inspirational and motivational books, go to the gym, clean your house, be creative and strategize your next move that will catapult your destiny.

I always tell a sister of mine that it is those that have nothing to do that keep facebook busy 24/7, 365 days a year. It is those that have nothing important to do with their time, that notice someone offended them and grumble about it from morning till night. It is jobless people that spend hours on end talking about absolute nonsense on the phone all day and everyday. Trust me, if you have goals to fulfill, there are so many things that will not even cross your mind to do, because your eyes are on the goal ahead of you. Those that want to fulfill their destinies are not time wasters. To them, every second counts.

All in all, there are so many profitable things that one can do, you just have to connect to God and allow Him to lead you. By doing that, you are walking on the right path and fulfilling your destiny. But remember, it’s not how fast you finish but how well. Whatever you notice takes up most of your time and you know it’s not profitable, ask God to help you deal with it. He is always waiting for us to pour our hearts out to Him. Always remember – “Every day lost, is an opportunity lost.”
 
                                                                ~IMMACULATE~~

SO…WHY ARE YOU STRESSED?

It’s funny how Christians stress over issues, even though they confess the Word daily. I say it’s funny because you have been given that free gift of salvation all by the mercy and grace of God, meaning, you have direct access to the King of Kings but yet at every slight uncomfortable moment, you stress and stress everyone around you. Seriously people, we proclaim and declare to the world that we are children of God but forget that when we encounter difficult situations.

My brother who is not even a born again Christian told me yesterday that” you know what Ore, I’ve learned not to stress over stuff anymore because God has a way of showing up and sorting it out.” I was so ecstatic because He is not going around quoting scriptures and praying all the prayers and screaming in tongues but He knows the power of God. But those that claim to know the power of God, don’t even know the God they serve. It’s really in those situations that, who you really are is revealed. I used to stress a lot over every tiny thing and will follow it up with doses of crying but glory be to God, I told my Pastor the other day that I don’t do it anymore. When everyone around me is anxious and worrying, just like my brother said, I take each day as it comes because you have enough to deal with in one day for you to start thinking about the next. When you look at what other people are going through, you thank God because you realize yours is minor.

Don’t say you have prayed, fasted or gone for deliverance. And so? That doesn’t mean God has to move immediately Sarah or John open their mouths and call on His name. If that happens, He will not be known as the Mysterious God anymore. He’ll become the Predictable God. God moves when and how He wants to but He is never late. God is too deep, too wide, and too broad for anyone to try to squeeze into a book and explain His character or how He does His things. That’s why even though the bible was written thousands of years ago, everyday, people receive different interpretations to what the Word is saying. So by looking at that, you can’t really understand God’s ways. All He asks you to do is just follow Him in faith, not knowing what He’s going to do next or how or when but just believing that He will arise for your sake.

It’s time to get over that crying and worrying and just focus on the awesomeness of God. Stop giving yourself unnecessary assignments by trying to figure out how, when or what God is going to do next. Why don’t you just enjoy being in His presence because when worry and anxiety set in, fear walks in and faith jumps out. When faith jumps out, it disconnects you temporarily from receiving from heaven because your mind can’t focus on God. All you see are the obstacles before you and not God. Try to grasp what God has for you each day, because each day is a learning process. Open your mind to receive from Him no matter where you are. Let your spirit be at alert because you never know how He’s going to speak to you next. Pray inquiry prayers to know God’s mind concerning the issue and ask for the grace to be obedient to what He has to say. It’s easy to say be obedient but it is really by the grace of God that you can be obedient to Him at all times. Stop beating yourself up unnecessarily and just enjoy your everyday life to the glory of God.

And lastly, remember “God loves you more than you can ever imagine and He will never leave you nor forsake you.” Jeremiah 29:11

                                                                           ~IMMACULATE~

It's Your Life,Nobody Is Perfect!!!

In life i have come to realize that we all make mistakes and it true that you learn from it..Sumtimes you ask yourself why did you go out with that guy?, or why did you hang out with such a back stabbing friend? so many questions u can ask yourself but i sit here today and tell you this;In life you have to experience all those because i believe we are always been tested and thougth a lesson.That is what i always convince why self with.So you sit back and wonder why all these cruel things happen to you remmeber its not the end of the world,like myself ive been through so much in my life to the point sumtymes u wish u neva woke up the next day.Ive had heart breaks over heart breaks ive had friends betray me ive been thru so much family wise,wat ever u can call it but i had to face reality and stood up to understand that without u been strong or confident that the storm wud pas you by it would crush you dpwn slowlyyy! and best believe it you will find yourself back at the same situation not been able to stop it at first.What is my point here? i that life is full of mistakes,drama,hate whatever name you want to call it.how to be happy in these life is left to you u are in control of the steering wheel in ur life if u drive to the rigth ur life would be driven to the rigth ..these are my views opinions on life remmeber you are in control. :)

                                                                                     ~IMMACULATE~