Hello sweet people its been a while i wrote a note on here.You know having one of those days where your head is so over bloated you dont even know that else to write. For those who might be reading one of my notes for the first time let me first by saying thank you so much for taking your time to read my notes; i dont write for fun Either do i write cause am bored or i write cause i dont have a life? trust me Ive had people come to me and say that. But there is something special about people who write they are very very special people.My own reason for writing is it makes me feel good about myself just pouring out your heart out there through writing its the best feeling i can ever get in this world.Anyway to Cut my long story short_-_-_ My topic for to nigth is Difference between dating A REAL MAN and DATING A BOY!10 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT REAL MEN!!!!!
1)A REAL MAN MAKES DECISIONS AND LIVES WITH THE CONSEQUENCES:
There are many ways to define a man, and different people have different definitions, so I'm going to skip all that crap and tell you the only thing you need to know.I did my research on these and i find it very interesting i must say, cause its something my dad always told me a solid man would make decisions wisely and even if it were a wring move he made he would live with the consequences,but a floating non-stable man or rather call them Boys are also in control of the decisions they make but not the consequences. so ladies ask yourself would you rather date or marry who is SLID or is floating! u might ask yourself WAt THE HELL?h? is her point well immaculate here is trying to say! pick a SOLID MAN who can handle a solid relationship than FLOATING man who would leave u hanging n u migth as well become MR&MRS FLOATER! with no solid foundation.but it has to start fromt he man.
LADIES STOP DATING BOYS AND DATE A REAL MAN
2) A REAL MAN IS STRONG:
I mean common ladies we want a man who can protect us and make us feel safe around them,even when we are weak they are our strong bone, someone who can yell at us the truth and we love when our men are not cowards either i mean Ive dated weak boys i mean extremely weak boys i cant stand it either.But let me clarify tht tho some real men cry and i dont see anything wrong in that actually everyone has thier weak point;but a real men rarely cries only if he was really hurt.A REAL MAN doesn't moan, doesn't complain, doesn't get sick, and doesn't need to go to the doctor every time he sneezes. A real man makes decisions and lives with the consequences. A real man accepts responsibility for his actions and his words. A real man is firm. If life is a b*tch, a real man will slap it and move on.thats rigth immaculate said that. LADIES STOP DATING BOYS AND DATE A REAL MAN!
3) A REAL MAN IS FOCUSED:
A real man focuses on power, money and family. He doesn't focus on sex. Sex comes as a result of having power, money and a wife (and if she doesn't satisfy you, there are plenty of other women who will, especially when you are powerful and rich).I mean honestly Ive dated so many guys who just aren't
focused at all, some are so immature all they care about is stupid things. and of course very little UN reasonable and profitable things that would bring them something positive in their life.I love a man who is also focused in school knows what is goals are and is ready to help people out there, ambitious,determined n also who thinks positively.Men always say they can't find a good woman, but when they do they don't know what to do with her! Thats because they are not focused! they dont have a plan for their life.LADIES STOP DATING BOYS AND DATE A REAL MAN!
4) A REAL MAN DOESNT GOSSIP:
of course ladies you know what i mean by that? ha ha ha i actually love this one in particular i must say cause there are so many many immature biys out there who just cant keep that mouth shut, and who said gossips were meant for women alone? loool please take that out of your head today men do gossip more than we ladies.They talk about every little detail they must have done with a girl which i must say is very embarrassing for we girls cause we so much have trusted the guy to do certain things with even our best friends i mean listen to this OUR SO CALLED BEST FRIENDS WE DONT TELL THEM EVERY LITTLE DETAIL ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIPS OR PERSONAL LIVES! A real man follows omerta; he keeps his mouth shut. He shelters information and rations his words. A real man does not reveal more than he has to and doesn't engage in girlie talk about others. A real man doesn't discuss things he doesn't know about or people he has never met.LADIES STOP DATING BOYS AND DATE REAL MEN
5) A REAL MAN DOESNT LOOK LIKE A WOMAN:
LADIES LADIES LADIES, my second best point of course u might be wondering what does she mean.but before i go further i must say am only writing this in my point of views and experiences ive been through.I might be young but Ive learnt so many both in a hard way,painful way, shameful what ever you wanna call it but life must go on.Not all i might have written here might relate with most ladies out there but i must say this is what ive experienced so please every one is entitled to their own opinion.>>>>>> BACK TO MY Point. A real man doesn't have piercings and long hair, and he doesn't shave his chest. Manicures, however, are acceptable. Massages from female attendants are also tolerated. A real man knows that, outside of his barber, all his personal hygiene needs must be taken care of by a woman. yes immaculate said that. LADIES PLEASE DATE REAL MEN NOT A BOY!
6) A REAL MAN CAN DEFEND HIMSELF:
i love it when men are very understanding and patience when it comes to arguing with women,they know how to defend them selves in a very high class manner, in fact i trip for men like that i really do honestly.A man who can stand up and own up to his own mistakes and never feels to proud to say AM SORRY. i respect men who defend themselves positively it just makes me go BOMB CHIKA WOW WOW! yea u know that commercial? loool yeap i totally forgot what the name of the cologne is but anyway LADIES THESE ARE MY OWN TIPS basically.it might work for you it might not work but am glad to help a lil. :)It's better to fall in love with the right guy at the wrong moment. Than with the wrong guy at the right moment.
7) A REAL MAN IS NOT AFRAID TO TELL YOU HE LOVES YOU:
i hate when men says that word i love you without backing it up with actions, i mean you got to really prove that you mean it, so many boys these days say that word in order to get in between your thighs trust me they are very good actors in fact PHD in acting they play it so well, you think your in love they say I LOVE YOU every minute and we ladies cause we carry such a tender,flexible and fragile heart we tend to fall for their deceit and every word they do tell us which i must agree its true.This word love can be very deceitful but it takes a woman with wisdom who knows the meaning of love and knows when she sees and feels love to understand what i am talking about.Know the differenced between true love and real real love. ladies its very important
8) A REAL MAN DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOUR WEIGTH:
and yes i have to talk about this topic cause so many relationships out there are been destroyed because of men who are so selfish n also heartless they feel skinny girls would stay skinny for ever.I must say attraction physically is a goog thing but not the best, honestly if you are emotionally and mentally attracted to sum1 through their heart the weight thing? you always have to over look that i respect guys who care much more about my health and not my weight. i mean i absolutely don't' see anything wrong with a woman who loves herself,her body and also is healthy i really have to say are the women with high self esteem especially we black women ha ha ha my goodness i have some crazy black friends they dont think been fat is all that good but they discovered that is the way they are they love their body and also they have men in their lives who love them the way they are,LADIES IF YOUR MAN IS DISTANCE AWAY FROM YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR WEIGHT PLEASE PLEASE LISTEN HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU FOR YOU.he is only attracted to you and your sexuality dont be too dump to fall for it.my previous was based on my ex who was overly obsessed with models n wanted a skinny girl with the shape and all that,unfortunately the girl he dated after gained some weight and he dumped her for another girl,i mean when will guys realize that women will always change no matter how perfect they migth look now they will always and always chnage body shape we get wrinkled up easily you know what i mean.
9) A REAL MAN RESPECTS YOU
they respect your worth,value,and also your decision for example if you tell them you dont want to have sex with them, Real men who love you and know the meaning of true love would respect your decision and wont force you out of your own will by making you feel less of a woman because you didn't have sex with them, Trust me Ive been there done that am not only talking because people say it you have to be able to experience some things in life in order to grow more in wisdom life it self we get tested and we learn from it.They respect you when you say you want to do this and do that, they support you every step of the way.They are not controlling and bossy i hate men who feel they got control over you especially when they think cause they are the shit which isn't or because they got the money or car or a job! A real man would take you for who you are respect your personality and and knows your worth as a woman and not control,yell at you or tells you what tot do boys do things alot.Trust me alot of my exes were boys boys boys boys.who just think they are smarter than anybody in this world but we ladies we show them how it is done.
10)A REAL MAN IS THE ESSENCE OF MANHOOD BECAUSE,BY DEFINITION HE HAS ACHIEVED THE PINNACLE OF HIS Role
And last but not the least i must say hmm mmm mmm...this so far was one great night writing all these and putting them n all together.once again it might not the best note or perfect note either but am sure many ladies out there can relate to this article right hereand also understand where am coming from thank you so much for taking your time to read this i really do appreciate it from the bottom of my heart! your comments,advice critisim i will accept cause we all learn everyday to become a better person.My goal is to become a better writer it has been my joy and it also comforts me also.Thank you one again.TO TOP IT ALL 'A REAL MAN LOVES GOD AND PUT HIM FIRST IN EVERYTHING HE DOES" N HE ALSO HAS A HEART THAT KNOWS GOD" GOD Bless you all
~IMMACULATE~
P.S this note was written by me if needed to make use of it please kindly let me know.Theres nothing wrong in being polite thanks <3
