Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something. They're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take. The most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are and how you present who we are. i have learned that a healthy relationship is nothing more than numerous arguments. An unhealthy relationship is nothing more than hiding your real feelings and pretending.
A deadness occurs in relationships when people are no longer willing to tell each other how they really feel and just keep everything balled up, and it all becomes more than what it once used to be and that leads to being lonely because they built a wall rather than building a bridge.Whenever you're in conflict with someone there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude and how you go about handling the situation. things are always getting blamed in a relationship of how someone feels, no one makes you feel anything. It is how you react and respond that determines your emotions and the outcome of the situation.
Blaming someone for how you feel is the same as judging them. When you judge another person, you do not define him or her, you define yourself and what you really are doing is looking at your self through another person. I've learned in my lifetime so far that you can't help who you fall for and no matter how hard you try and how much it hurts you everyday that you just wanna be with them or just talk to them you never stop trying to make them happy by the little things you say or do because thats what makes your life worth going on for.
i have also learned It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others. learning to love your self is number one then loving someone else come like second nature.Words of wisdom... the more connections you and your love one make, not just between each other but, between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together.
~IMMACULATE~
A deadness occurs in relationships when people are no longer willing to tell each other how they really feel and just keep everything balled up, and it all becomes more than what it once used to be and that leads to being lonely because they built a wall rather than building a bridge.Whenever you're in conflict with someone there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude and how you go about handling the situation. things are always getting blamed in a relationship of how someone feels, no one makes you feel anything. It is how you react and respond that determines your emotions and the outcome of the situation.
Blaming someone for how you feel is the same as judging them. When you judge another person, you do not define him or her, you define yourself and what you really are doing is looking at your self through another person. I've learned in my lifetime so far that you can't help who you fall for and no matter how hard you try and how much it hurts you everyday that you just wanna be with them or just talk to them you never stop trying to make them happy by the little things you say or do because thats what makes your life worth going on for.
i have also learned It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others. learning to love your self is number one then loving someone else come like second nature.Words of wisdom... the more connections you and your love one make, not just between each other but, between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together.
~IMMACULATE~
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